I accepted a job in the neighborhood of Seattle, but our family & I are from Texas, when I agreed to take the job, I knew I was going to have to spend some time away from our spouse & kidsâ€¦ The jobs started immediately, but the two of us were not ready to transfer halfway across the country, then all of the moving tasks settled onto the shoulders of our spouse, and she seemed up for the task, even though it was incredibly stressful.
The idea was for me to spend six weeks in Seattle working while our spouse got the apartment & the kids ready to transfer in the Summer when the semester was over; I was gone for many weeks & I didn’t have our spouse or our kids with me.
I started using recreational marijuana frequentlyâ€¦ My spouse was genuinely unhappy that I was using recreational marijuana. I tried to explain to her that it was perfectly legal in Seattle, but she claimed that I was taking fortune of the laws. She refused to transfer to Seattle with the kids until I promised to go to nightly NA meetings after labor was over. I felt savor I was between a rock & a hard locale. I had to take a week off from our contract job so I could fly back apartment to Texas to talk to our spouse. I do not think what she was thinking, but I could tell she was sad about moving. After the two of us were together, she calmed down & realized that she was overreacting. Three weeks later, the two of us were all in Seattle together.